<p class="ql-block">之前與幾個朋友閑談處事待人之道，不知是聽他們當中誰說的，還是在哪里聽過這么一句話：久處不厭，閑談不煩，從不敷衍，絕不怠慢！</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">閑談中，有個朋友說：“我不想借誰的光，我要自己發(fā)光。我要在自己的世界獨善其身，成為自己的太陽！”</p> <p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">另一個朋友道：“我之所以能處理很多突發(fā)的事情，都是因為我經歷過孤獨。我覺得學會面對孤獨，是成長過程中，必然會面對的?！?lt;/p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">還有一個朋友說：“我終于懂得如何從容面對生活了。我會在很平常的一天，做一件了不起的大事，也會在很重要的時間里，選擇看淡得失并處理好一件小事！”</p> <p class="ql-block">最后，我們閑談之后得出結論：當我們在追求富強，追求效率，追求秩序的時候，我們是否記得，所有一切的最終目的，是要人活得更像人。</p> <p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">本來只是朋友之間的閑談，可看來話題似乎嚴肅了一點。盡管如此，我倒是很認可我們得出的結論?？磥磉@次閑談也頗有收獲。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">我想，最初提到的那十六個字，基本上概括了最令人愉悅的關系，不論是友情還是愛情。。</p> <p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">Some time ago, while chatting with a few friends about the ways of handling affairs & dealing with people, I don’t remember whether it was one of them or somewhere else that I heard this quote: "We never grow tired of each other even after long periods of being together; our casual chats are never boring; we never brush each other off, nor do we ever neglect each other!"</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">During the chat, one friend said, "I don’t want to borrow anyone else’s light. I want to shine on my own. I want to cultivate myself in my own world & become my own sun!"</p> <p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">Another friend remarked, "The reason I can handle many unexpected situations is that I have experienced loneliness. I believe learning to face loneliness is something we inevitably encounter as we grow."</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">Yet another friend added, "I’ve finally learned how to face life with ease. I would accomplish something remarkable on a very ordinary day. And during crucial moments, I choose to downplay gains & losses & handle a small matter properly!"</p> <p class="ql-block">In the end, after our chat, we concluded: While we pursue prosperity, efficiency & order, do we remember that the ultimate goal of it all is to allow people to live more fully as human beings?</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">It started as just a casual chat among friends, but the topic turned rather serious. Even so, I find myself resonating with our conclusion. It seems this discussion was truly meaningful.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">I suppose those 16 words mentioned earlier capture the essence of what makes a relationship most joyful, be it friendship or in love..</p>