<p class="ql-block">昵稱：XWQ</p><p class="ql-block">美篇號：505215670</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">2025年12月第一周話題討論五花八門，話題接地氣又有共鳴，越聊越上頭！有人是買房子，裝修房子的困惑，也有家庭矛盾，還有鄰居之間的事等等；老師們也是熱心支招獻(xiàn)策，幫助那些正在困惑的人。</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">2025年12月1號一12月7號發(fā)起話51題條，置頂話題+自燃??36條，妙招盡在其中，下面邀約您欣賞.........</p> 2025年12月1—7號置頂+自然??話題+發(fā)起話題 <p class="ql-block">1：凡爾賽玫瑰老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqwkn1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">連續(xù)加班數(shù)月的25歲小伙子上班時上吐下瀉，于下班后離世，究竟是工傷？還是自己身體的問題</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：微??笑老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqwjpy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">矛盾是普遍存在的認(rèn)知與實踐困境</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：萍萍老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqwlsc&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">[討論]大清早買過早走出家屬院，老同事們圍著問我：“你為啥要加入美篇，還天天抱著個手機泡在生活矛盾群眾評理委員會團隊，不分日夜寫文章、在討論區(qū)和群里忙得不停？這么折騰，到底圖啥？有啥意義？”</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：夏雨老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqxxd8&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】生活里的矛盾是不是都藏著沒問對的問題</a></p><p class="ql-block">5：IIXRR老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqynme&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">為什么總有人用“既然都發(fā)生了，你想怎么處理”堵人</a></p><p class="ql-block">6：微笑老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqxoio&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">有人說現(xiàn)在的親情關(guān)系和以前的親情不一樣</a></p><p class="ql-block">7：沐蕾老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fr190t&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【討論】為什么現(xiàn)在的孩子，普遍都特別脆弱？” 不少家長和教育者都有同感：有些孩子聽不得批評，稍受指責(zé)就生氣崩潰；遇到難題第一反應(yīng)是退縮，生活與學(xué)習(xí)中的抗壓能力格外薄弱</a></p><p class="ql-block">8：臘梅老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fr1yq1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">利益是塊試金石更是照妖鏡。有的人輕財好施，有的人則視財如命。俗話說:物以類聚，人以群分，您怎么看</a></p><p class="ql-block">9：IIXRR老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frcnld&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【討論】你心中的“寫字精神”是什么</a></p><p class="ql-block">10：凡爾賽玫瑰老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fr4ezh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">“劉德華板鴨”算不算侵權(quán)</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">11：凡爾賽玫瑰老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fraycy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">“吸毒歷史”該不該被封存</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">12：文浩老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqvi6v&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">這個位置空著，我為啥不能坐</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">13：IIXRR老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fr4h32&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】明明自己決心凡事往好處想，為啥腦子總先鉆牛角尖</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">14：紅梅愛心社常美天寧分會萬國產(chǎn)老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frbttg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">十分感謝夏雨老師這么認(rèn)真負(fù)責(zé)審核文章，十分感謝</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">15：長流水老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqx25e&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】最近，我很糾結(jié)。兒子不再象小的時候，對我是言聽計從。隨著他慢慢長大，上大學(xué)參加工作，尤其是小有成績，有點小職務(wù)……</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">16：微笑老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frnq04&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">我們【生活矛盾群眾評理委員會】是一個非常有愛的大家庭，文浩老師是我們的家長，我們的家庭成員在家長的帶領(lǐng)下，特別的和諧有愛，讓我感受到了家的溫暖，我愛我們的這個家，我與圈子共成長</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">17：隨緣老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frny99&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">張姐72歲，有一兒一女。閨女定居國外，兒子在省城成家立業(yè)。張姐和老伴退休金一萬五千元，每年補貼兒子5萬元用于孫子的培養(yǎng)教育。張姐因腰間盤突出做了手術(shù)，正處在康復(fù)期。老伴兒長她三歲不會做家務(wù)……</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">18：心靈跋涉小小葉子老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frpg5b&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">非常感謝大家的閱讀，在這里我似乎找到了回家的路，再一次向你們說一聲：謝謝你們的喜愛，謝謝你們認(rèn)可</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">19：輸不掉的微笑老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frmz1g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">兒女的婚事家長如何看待</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">20：郭老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frprr1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】昨天接到一個從班主任那里反饋來的一個單親女生，說她夜深人靜的時候，大家同學(xué)都睡覺了，她在唱歌。上課的時候也在搗亂課堂。老師、領(lǐng)導(dǎo)都找了她談話，她一言不發(fā)……</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">21：臘梅老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqz6s4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】或許每個人心中都藏著一條悲傷的河流。假如某一天你被平時最信任和最敬重的那個人冤枉了，你會怎么做？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">22：萬古長空閣老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frzy8x&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】小女兒問我，為什么要把兒子叫建設(shè)銀行，女兒叫招商銀行，是因為不論家境如何都會托舉兒子，而生女兒就默認(rèn)不給買房買車嗎？我怎么回答</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">23：沐蕾老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fs9eej&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【討論】岳母在女婿家住著給他們看孩子，女婿和岳母之間應(yīng)保持有明顯的邊界感嗎？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">24：澄江飛霞老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fs02xz&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">用“想開點”三個字用來安慰得了絕癥的患者，您覺得妥切嗎？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">25：三界老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fscupj&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【矛盾】一段時間以來，【矛盾群】在我看來，起初為新鮮、有沖擊力，有文武功力的展示力。但后來，漸覺消疲。問題在哪里呢？因為都是實際問題……</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">26：隨緣老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frwi92&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">[討論]：如果是您，您會怎么去勸說玲玲的丈夫</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">27：凡爾賽玫瑰老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frfagi&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">感恩的心</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">28：IIXRR老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frfasw&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">感謝大家的支持</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">29：凡爾賽玫瑰老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frcc7d&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">今天我能順利升級嘛？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">30：0707老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frml88&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">超市的做法對嗎</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">31：微笑老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fs719i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">1?? 買房與租房的問題該如何解？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">32：周清泉老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fqz8gf&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【恭喜】恭喜本周榮登達(dá)人榜的老師們</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">33：隨緣老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsvsx1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">[討論]：請美友們幫忙分析一下，新娘媽媽是怎么想的，她身上有什么可取之處</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">34：長流水老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsw0dx&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">4??.小兩口租房擔(dān)心房東漲價，買房子又買不起，該咋辦？ 描述：如今在城市打拼，租房住房東總是找理由漲房租，不聽他的就收回房子。買房吧，買不起，在這種不確定的心理下很不踏實，如何做能讓他們營造出踏實過</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">35：老龍王老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsmbmy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">3??.入住新房要搬家，看著舊家居犯了難！住新房后家里的舊家居咋辦</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">36：0707老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fse4zg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">2??.新房入住多煩惱， 約您分憂化矛盾</a></p> 2025年12月1—7號發(fā)起話題 <p class="ql-block">1：周清泉老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsldsd&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">還差390分就能升級五級了，憑大家互動的經(jīng)驗，大家覺得還需要多久才能升級五級啊。</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：周清泉老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsw179&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【今日有喜】連續(xù)兩天抽到這么多，驚喜連連，大家也分享一一下你們的小驚喜吧。</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：改變老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsijex&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【討論】結(jié)婚是買房還是租房？ 這個問題要量力而行，最好是買房，我也覺得租房沒有歸屬感。 有一個問題要明確，取得雙方父母他幫助……</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：微笑老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsvusa&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">各位老師你們好，2025年即將結(jié)束，老師們的2025年是什么樣子的呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block">5：宋奇跡老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsubrk&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">怎樣才能化解生活中的矛盾</a></p><p class="ql-block">6：大公雞老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fspgwr&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">朋友們禮拜天</a></p><p class="ql-block">7：兵海閑居老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsi49y&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">生活中遇到誤解怎么辦</a></p><p class="ql-block">8：布迪先生老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=froyot&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">大家好，新人報道</a></p><p class="ql-block">9：媛婷老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsczjb&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">新人報道，請多多指教</a></p><p class="ql-block">10：速然老師發(fā)起<a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsc6xj&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">更新認(rèn)知，與時俱進(jìn)，活到老學(xué)到老；朝霞予人奮進(jìn)之力，晚霞自有從容之美，讓此生滿是斑斕風(fēng)景</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">11：奇跡老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fsc4qa&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">怎樣處理人際關(guān)系</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">12：瀏仔老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fs1gd1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">新人報到，謝謝關(guān)照</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">13：董懂老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=frzoln&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">大雪節(jié)氣要來了， 你別以為沒矛盾了！ 也有不少矛盾呢， 懂來說說都有哪些</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">14：美好時光老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fs35do&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">記住了，淡忘別人的缺點，你才能記住別人的優(yōu)點。很多人忘記了自己妻子的優(yōu)點，慢慢地就天天看到她的缺點；有的人天天看到先生的缺點，就忘記了先生的優(yōu)點。所以……</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">15：美好時光老師發(fā)起</span><a href="http://www.zit.org.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fr5r06&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">我不要去擁有，我就懂得付出，你就成功了。重視別人所講的每一句話，要控制好自己所講的每一句話，因為不管誰講你或者你講別人，你都要學(xué)會忍耐</a></p>