<p class="ql-block"> 不管是政治家、偉人、藝術(shù)家、詩人、文學(xué)家、科學(xué)家、大國工匠都離不開愛。因?yàn)檫@是人類生存、繁衍中獲取生活勇氣和力量的最底層需要。</p><p class="ql-block"> 是把她看成僅僅是“性”的生理需求，還是繼續(xù)升華到精神需求的更高境界，取決于一個(gè)人的三觀、文化底蘊(yùn)……</p><p class="ql-block"> 看看這些近現(xiàn)代人杰是如何對(duì)待這個(gè)問題的；熱烈而含蓄，坦誠并專一，宏大而細(xì)微。愛與婚姻的完美結(jié)合，可謂當(dāng)今社會(huì)之楷模。</p><p class="ql-block"> 曾和一些年輕人談過類似的問題，文化層次較低的人認(rèn)為：現(xiàn)在提倡解放人性，就是“性”的解放。所以“暗藏”屢禁不止。文化層次較高的人認(rèn)為，愛與婚姻完全是兩碼事！寧可享受愛情的甜蜜，而不愿承擔(dān)婚姻的責(zé)任，導(dǎo)致婚外情、離婚率高發(fā)。造成這種現(xiàn)象的發(fā)生，有客觀社會(huì)原因，也有輿論等主觀的引導(dǎo)問題。</p><p class="ql-block"> 這是一個(gè)包容的社會(huì)，它有先進(jìn)的科技高速發(fā)展的一面，也有低級(jí)倒退的一面?？膳碌氖?，按照維根斯坦的邏輯論哲學(xué)觀點(diǎn)，語言即是哲學(xué)，哲學(xué)是為人服務(wù)的。如果人對(duì)愛的理解定格在了“性”“享樂”的層面，你怎么將其表達(dá)出來，就是你真實(shí)存在的事實(shí)。想想都可怕！</p><p class="ql-block"> 所以，輿論宣傳、引導(dǎo)何等重要！難道我們還不如古人了嗎？</p> <p class="ql-block">《情長紙短，吻你萬千》</p><p class="ql-block">--最美愛情書信金句</p><p class="ql-block">編輯：小樹（中文）</p><p class="ql-block">英譯：Deepseek</p><p class="ql-block">音畫誦讀：小草</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p> <p class="ql-block">《情長紙短，吻你萬千》</p><p class="ql-block">----那些美到極致的情書</p><p class="ql-block">編輯：小樹</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（沈從文寫給張兆和的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">我行過許多地方的橋</p><p class="ql-block">看過許多次數(shù)的云</p><p class="ql-block">喝過許多種類的酒</p><p class="ql-block">卻只愛過一個(gè)正當(dāng)最好年齡的人</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（錢鐘書寫給楊絳的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">沒遇到你之前，</p><p class="ql-block">我沒想過結(jié)婚，</p><p class="ql-block">遇見你，</p><p class="ql-block">結(jié)婚這事我沒想過和別人。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（徐志摩寫給陸小曼的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">我沒有別的方法，我就有愛；</p><p class="ql-block">沒有別的天才，就是愛；</p><p class="ql-block">沒有別的能力，只是愛；</p><p class="ql-block">沒有別的動(dòng)力，只是愛。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（魯迅寫給許廣平的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">我寄你的信，</p><p class="ql-block">總要送往郵局，</p><p class="ql-block">不喜歡放在街邊的綠色郵筒中，</p><p class="ql-block">我總疑心那里會(huì)慢一點(diǎn)。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（朱生豪寫給宋清如的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">不要愁老之將至，</p><p class="ql-block">你老了一定很可愛。</p><p class="ql-block">而且，假如你老了十歲，</p><p class="ql-block">我當(dāng)然也老了十歲，</p><p class="ql-block">世界也老了十歲，</p><p class="ql-block">上帝也老了十歲，</p><p class="ql-block">一切都一樣。</p><p class="ql-block">我愿意舍棄一切，</p><p class="ql-block">以想念你終此一生。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（張愛玲和胡蘭成的《愛》：）</p><p class="ql-block">于千萬人之中遇見你所要遇見的人，</p><p class="ql-block">于千萬年之中，</p><p class="ql-block">時(shí)間的無涯的荒野里，</p><p class="ql-block">沒有早一步，也沒有晚一步，</p><p class="ql-block">剛巧趕上了，</p><p class="ql-block">那也沒有別的話可說，</p><p class="ql-block">惟有輕輕地問一聲：“噢，你也在這里嗎？”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（朱自清寫給陳竹隱的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">一見你的眼睛，我便清醒起來，</p><p class="ql-block">我更喜歡看你那暈紅的雙腮，</p><p class="ql-block">黃昏時(shí)的霞彩似的，</p><p class="ql-block">謝謝你給我力量。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（余光中寫給范我存的情書：）</p><p class="ql-block">不要問我心里有沒有你，</p><p class="ql-block">我余光中都是你。</p><p class="ql-block">你帶笑地向我步來，</p><p class="ql-block">月色與雪色之間，</p><p class="ql-block">你是第三種絕色。</p><p class="ql-block">你的眼睛里可真好看，</p><p class="ql-block">里面有晴云、山川、云霧、花鳥。</p><p class="ql-block">但我的眼睛更好看，</p><p class="ql-block">因?yàn)槲业难劬镉心恪?lt;/p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（梁思成和林徽因愛的對(duì)白：）</p><p class="ql-block">（梁）“有一句話，我只問這一次，</p><p class="ql-block">以后都不會(huì)再問，為什么是我？”</p><p class="ql-block">（林）：“答案很長，</p><p class="ql-block">我準(zhǔn)備用一生的時(shí)間來回答，</p><p class="ql-block">你準(zhǔn)備要聽了嗎？”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">（ZHOU恩來和DENG穎超愛的書信:)</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：你的信太過官方，都不說想我。</p><p class="ql-block">（鄧）：ZHOU總理是大忙人，哪有時(shí)間來想我。</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：閑人怎么知道忙人多想閑人。</p><p class="ql-block">望你珍重，吻你萬千。</p><p class="ql-block">（鄧）：情長紙短，還吻你萬千。</p><p class="ql-block">（周）：我這一生都是堅(jiān)定不移的唯物主義者，</p><p class="ql-block">唯你，我希望有來生。</p> <p class="ql-block">《Endless Love on a Tiny Page, Countless Kisses to You》</p><p class="ql-block">—Exquisitely Beautiful Love Letters</p><p class="ql-block">Translater: Deepseek</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Shen Congwen to Zhang Zhaohe:)</p><p class="ql-block">I have crossed many bridges in my travels,</p><p class="ql-block">Seen clouds drift by countless times,</p><p class="ql-block">Tasted wines of many kinds</p><p class="ql-block">—Yet I have loved only one</p><p class="ql-block">Who was just at the right age.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Qian Zhongshu to Yang Jiang:)</p><p class="ql-block">Before I met you,</p><p class="ql-block">I never thought of marriage.</p><p class="ql-block">After meeting you,</p><p class="ql-block">I never thought of marriage with anyone else.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Xu Zhimo to Lu Xiaoman:)</p><p class="ql-block">I have no other way, I only have love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other talent,</p><p class="ql-block"> just love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other ability, only love;</p><p class="ql-block">No other motivation, </p><p class="ql-block">just love.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Lu Xun to Xu Guangping:)</p><p class="ql-block">Whenever I send you a letter,</p><p class="ql-block">I always take it to the post office myself</p><p class="ql-block">—I dislike dropping it in the green mailbox on the street,</p><p class="ql-block">For I always fear it might be slower that way.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhu Shenghao to Song Qingru:)</p><p class="ql-block">Don’t worry about growing old</p><p class="ql-block">—You’ll be just as lovely when you’re old.</p><p class="ql-block">And if you age ten years,</p><p class="ql-block">Then I too will age ten,</p><p class="ql-block">The world will age ten,</p><p class="ql-block">Even God will age ten</p><p class="ql-block">—Everything will be the same.</p><p class="ql-block">I’m willing to give up everything,</p><p class="ql-block">Just to spend my life missing you.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhang Ailing & Hu Lancheng’s "Love":)</p><p class="ql-block">Among thousands of people, </p><p class="ql-block">you meet the one you’re meant to meet.</p><p class="ql-block">Through thousands of years,</p><p class="ql-block">In the boundless wilderness of time—Not a step too early,</p><p class="ql-block">Nor a step too late,</p><p class="ql-block">You happen to meet them.</p><p class="ql-block">And there’s nothing more to say,</p><p class="ql-block">Just a soft whisper:“Oh, so you’re here too?”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhu Ziqing to Chen Zhuyin:)</p><p class="ql-block">The moment I see your eyes, </p><p class="ql-block">I wake anew.</p><p class="ql-block">I adore even more the rosy blush on your cheeks,</p><p class="ql-block">Like the evening’s afterglow.</p><p class="ql-block">Thank you for giving me strength.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Yu Guangzhong to Fan Wocun:)</p><p class="ql-block">Don’t ask if you’re in my heart</p><p class="ql-block">—In my Yu GuangZhong，</p><p class="ql-block">it’s all you.</p><p class="ql-block">You walk toward me with a smile,</p><p class="ql-block">Between the moonlight and the snow</p><p class="ql-block">—You are the third kind of breath taking beauty.</p><p class="ql-block">Your eyes are truly lovely,</p><p class="ql-block">Holding clear skies, mountains, mist, and blossoms.</p><p class="ql-block">But my eyes are even more beautiful,</p><p class="ql-block">Because they have you in them.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Liang Sicheng & Lin Huiyin’s Love Dialogue:)</p><p class="ql-block">（Liang:）</p><p class="ql-block">“One question—just this once,</p><p class="ql-block">I’ll never ask again: Why me?”</p><p class="ql-block">(Lin:)</p><p class="ql-block">“The answer is long,</p><p class="ql-block">I’ll need a lifetime to explain.</p><p class="ql-block">Are you ready to listen?”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou Enlai & Deng Yingchao’s Love Letters:)</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">Your letters are too formal—you never say you miss me.</p><p class="ql-block">(Deng:)</p><p class="ql-block">Premier Zhou is far too busy—how could he have time to miss me?</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">How would an idle person know</p><p class="ql-block"> how much a busy man misses them?Take care, my love, and kisses to you—thousands of them.</p><p class="ql-block">(Deng:)</p><p class="ql-block">So much love, </p><p class="ql-block">so little paper—still, I kiss you endlessly.</p><p class="ql-block">(Zhou:)</p><p class="ql-block">All my life, </p><p class="ql-block">I’ve been a steadfast materialist,</p><p class="ql-block">But for you, </p><p class="ql-block">I’m willing to believe in an afterlife.</p>