<p class="ql-block">原創(chuàng): 倪捷兒 攝影：馬玲、羅悅明、倪捷兒</p> <p class="ql-block">Original: Ni Jieer Photography: Ma Ling, Luo Yueming, Ni Jieer</p> <p class="ql-block">近日，重讀朱自清先生的散文《背影》：“戴了一頂舊氈帽，又胖又矮的身影邁著蹣跚的步子，攀月臺，過鐵道，為心愛的兒子買橘子。”先生用樸實無華的語言譜寫了人間最平常、最真摯的親情。讀完《背影》，仿佛心弦被一雙柔和的手拔動，久久難以平靜；又仿佛有一雙圣潔的翅膀飛過天空，在心中投下點點倩影。</p> <p class="ql-block">Recently, I re-read Mr. Zhu Ziqing's essay "Back View": "Wearing an old felt hat, a fat and short figure with a wobbly step climbed the platform, crossed the railway, and bought oranges for his beloved son." Mr. Zhu used simple and plain language to compose the most ordinary and sincere family affection in the world. After reading "Back View", it was as if the strings of my heart were plucked by a gentle hand, and I could not calm down for a long time; it was as if a pair of holy wings flew across the sky, casting a few traces of shadow in my heart.</p> <p class="ql-block">其實，我們許多人都有這樣一個父親：他操勞奔波，含辛茹苦，整天為我們忙這忙那。父愛如山般深厚，父親用堅實的雙肩支撐起整個家庭。童年時，父親的目光里是滿滿的寵愛；青年時，是殷殷的期盼；壯年時，是大大的贊許。慢慢的，父親的頭發(fā)白了、后背駝了、腳步也重了，目光依然柔和但夾雜著童真般的依賴。</p> <p class="ql-block">In fact, many of us have such a father: he works hard, suffers hardships, and is busy all day long for us. Fatherly love is as deep as a mountain, and the father supports the whole family with his sturdy shoulders. When we were children, our father's eyes were full of love; when we were young, he was full of expectations; when we were in our prime, he was full of praise. Slowly, his hair turned white, his back became stooped, and his steps became heavier, but his eyes remained gentle but with the dependency of childhood.</p> <p class="ql-block">《父親的目光》是一首贊美父親的歌曲。河水長又長，奔向遠(yuǎn)方，夢中的父親，彎曲的脊梁。你永遠(yuǎn)像高山屹立在我的心間，父親的目光讓我更加溫暖。雖然你不言語，雖然你不表白，從你的歌聲里，我聽到了父親的愛。每當(dāng)優(yōu)美的旋律響起，我總會忍不住淚光閃爍，父親那深沉的愛要用多么華麗的語言才能說出口？</p> <p class="ql-block">"The Father's Look" is a song that praises the father. The river is long and long, flowing towards the distance, the father in my dream, bent back. You are always like a mountain standing in my heart, the father's look makes me feel warmer. Although you don't speak, although you don't express, from your song, I hear the father's love. Whenever a beautiful melody sounds, I can't help but have tears in my eyes. How can I express the father's deep love with such splendid language?</p> <p class="ql-block">歲月真是不饒人，如此英俊帥氣的少年，如今已是94歲壽星了。父親出身在溫州虹橋一戶工商地主家庭，爺爺承父業(yè)經(jīng)營著一家棉紗店和一家米行店，爺爺樂于助人，經(jīng)常會做些修橋鋪路、救濟窮人的善事。奶奶娘家有姐妹八人，奶奶排行老六，家族中出過名人，浙南游擊縱隊三五支隊司令員周丕振就是父親三姨的兒子。</p> <p class="ql-block">The years are very relentless, and such a handsome young man is now 94 years old. His father was born in Hongqiao, Wenzhou, a family of industrial and commercial landlords, and his grandfather ran a cotton yarn shop and a rice shop. Grandpa was very helpful. He would often do good things to build bridges and roads and to help the poor. There were eight sisters in grandma's family. Grandma was the sixth oldest. There were famous people in the family. Zhou Weizhen, the commander of the Zhejiang Southern Guerrilla Column 3 and 5th Battalion, was the son of the father's third aunt.</p> <p class="ql-block">戎馬生涯里，洗禮青春季。1949年11月，18歲的父親不顧父母反對，報名參軍，從此走上了自己選擇的人生道路。1950年11月至次年年初，父親參加了解放定海的各類戰(zhàn)役，這對于一個文弱書生來說，是個不小的考驗，父親勇敢機智，榮獲二等戰(zhàn)斗功臣稱號。戰(zhàn)爭結(jié)束，父親繼續(xù)留在部隊，在部隊擔(dān)任著文化教員，由于家庭出身問題，1955年，父親復(fù)員回到了家鄉(xiāng)溫州。</p> <p class="ql-block">During his career as a soldier, he christened his youth. In November 1949, the 18-year-old father signed up to join the army despite the opposition of his parents, and has since embarked on a life path of his choice. From November 1950 to the beginning of the following year, my father participated in various battles to liberate Dinghai, which was a great test for a weak student. My father was brave and witty, and was awarded the title of second class combatant. After the war, his father continued to stay in the army, serving as a cultural teacher in the army, due to family origin, in 1955, his father was demobilized and returned to his hometown, Wenzhou.</p> <p class="ql-block">浪漫相遇，喜結(jié)姻緣。1953年8月，母親浙江衛(wèi)校畢業(yè)前往余姚報到，乘車途中巧遇英俊的軍人父親，熱情的父親，陪母親報到并安頓好一切，并互留了通訊地址，后來他們書信來往互生情愫，于1957年8月喜結(jié)良緣。1962年9月，父母的愛情結(jié)晶，他們的第一個孩子-我，有緣與他們相見了。</p> <p class="ql-block">Romantic encounter, happy marriage. In August 1953, my mother graduated from Zhejiang Health School and went to report to Yuyao. On the way, she met her handsome military father by chance. The enthusiastic father accompanied my mother to report and settled everything, and they exchanged contact information. Later, they exchanged letters and fell in love. In August 1957, they got married happily. In September 1962, the love fruit of my parents, their first child - me, had the chance to meet them.</p> <p class="ql-block">教壇四十載，桃梨滿天下。父親高中畢業(yè)沒上過大學(xué)，但從小飽讀史書，天文地理和古近代歷史樣樣精通，還擅長田徑、球類等體育運動。他教過歷史、地理和政治，主教體育課。父親先后擔(dān)任過十任班主任，他與學(xué)生感情深厚關(guān)系極好，早年常與學(xué)生同吃同住，還從自己微薄工資省出一些錢來，為貧困學(xué)生代交學(xué)費或補助生活費。</p> <p class="ql-block">For forty years, the temple has blossomed in the world. My father graduated from high school and did not go to college, but he grew up reading history books and was very good at astronomy, geography and ancient and modern history. He was also good at athletics such as track and ball games. He has taught history, geography and politics, as well as physical education courses. My father, who served as a class leader for ten years, had a strong bond with his students. He often ate and lived with them in his early years, and saved some money from his modest salary to pay tuition or support for the living expenses of poor students.</p> <p class="ql-block">父女情深深，今生難忘懷。我上初中后，父親才調(diào)到了家附近的一所中學(xué)任教，他帶著少體班和集訓(xùn)隊，要等到晚上學(xué)生上床熄燈后才回家，晨曦中又急匆匆地趕往學(xué)校喚醒學(xué)生訓(xùn)練，雖很少能見到父親。但他總是諄諄教誨我，要我每日反思，反思那些是好的，那些是不妥的，在父親的教導(dǎo)鼓勵下，我進步很快，擔(dān)任了校學(xué)生會主席，還評上了寧波市新長征突擊手。</p> <p class="ql-block">Father and daughter loved each other so deeply that I will never forget them in my life. After I started junior high school, my father transferred to a middle school near my home to teach. He brought a physical education class and a training team. He waited until evening when the students went to bed and turned off the lights before coming home. He hurried to the school in the morning to wake up the students for training, although I rarely saw my father. But he always inculcate me, want me to reflect every day, reflect on what is good, those are not right, in the father's teaching and encouragement, I made rapid progress, as the school student union president, but also on the new Ningbo City Long March assault.</p> <p class="ql-block">父女情深深，今生難忘懷。父親是外孫女的司機兼保鏢，樂呵呵地穿梭于學(xué)校、少年宮和家之間。父親也是女兒我的暖爸，冒著雨雪、冒著酷暑，把母親做好的飯菜送到我家，送到我的學(xué)校去，就為能上女兒吃上一口熱飯。女兒上幼兒園了，我給父母報了老年大學(xué)，從此才真正開啟了父親幸福的晚年享樂生活。</p> <p class="ql-block">Father and daughter loved each other so deeply that I will never forget them in my life. The father was the granddaughter's driver and bodyguard and happily commuted between school, the juvenile palace and home. My father was also my daughter's warm father. He braved the rain, the snow, and the heat to send the food my mother cooked to my house and to my school so that my daughter could have a hot meal. My daughter went to kindergarten, I reported to the parents of the university for the aged, from then on really opened the father's happy old age pleasure life.</p> <p class="ql-block">2006年3月，我隨羅爸工作調(diào)動來到杭州，不久父母也移居杭州。他們對杭州格外的歡喜和親切，他們最愛的女兒女婿在，他們青春年華的記憶在。約著朋友們，去看早春二月植物園的梅香滿園，去看陽春三月蘇堤的桃紅柳綠，去看仲夏曲苑風(fēng)荷的滿園荷花，去聞金秋十月杭州的滿城桂香，去看冬日濕地的蘆葦飄飄。</p> <p class="ql-block">In March 2006, I moved to Hangzhou with my father's job transfer. Soon after, my parents also moved to Hangzhou. They were particularly happy and friendly in Hangzhou. Their favorite daughter and son-in-law were there, and they had memories of their youth. They went with friends to see the plum blossoms in full bloom in the botanical garden in early spring, the peach blossoms and willows in full bloom on the West Lake in early spring, the full garden of lotus flowers in the summer, the full city of osmanthus fragrance in autumn, and the reeds swaying in the wetlands in winter.</p> <p class="ql-block">轉(zhuǎn)眼間，時光的指針來到了2019年，父母來杭州定居已足足十二年。杭州真是絕妙的地方，好山好水養(yǎng)好人，我從來沒感覺自己已年過半百，感覺自己還如少女一般愛做粉色夢，還如少婦一般愛穿衣打扮，甚至如少年一般雄心壯志，父母的心態(tài)也一樣年輕活躍。父母哺育了我們長大，現(xiàn)在該是我們反哺他們的時候了。</p> <p class="ql-block">In the blink of an eye, the pointer of time has reached 2019. It has been twelve years since my parents settled in Hangzhou. Hangzhou is truly a wonderful place. Good mountains and good water nurture good people. I have never felt that I am over fifty years old. I still feel like a young girl who loves to dream in pink, like a young woman who loves to dress up, and even like a young man who is full of ambition. My parents' mentality is just as young and active. My parents raised us to grow up, and now it is time for us to repay them.</p> <p class="ql-block">讓父母有好的養(yǎng)老環(huán)境、生活照顧和精神享受，這個念頭在我心中醞釀了好些年，直到2019年才如愿以償。朗和國際醫(yī)養(yǎng)中心，成了父母幸福的港灣，長者大都來自高校、醫(yī)院、機關(guān)退休的，琴棋書畫、唱歌跳舞，熱鬧非凡。2020年初疫情期間，與父母整整兩個半月未見。那一日，我們相擁著來到了波光粼粼的西湖。</p> <p class="ql-block">To provide parents with a good environment for old age, care, and spiritual enjoyment, this idea has been brewing in my heart for many years, and I finally achieved it in 2019. Lang International Medical and Nursing Center has become a haven of happiness for parents. Most of the elderly come from universities, hospitals, and retired officials. They play musical instruments, chess, calligraphy, painting, singing, and dancing, making it a lively place. In the early 2020 pandemic, I did not see my parents for two and a half months. On that day, we embraced each other and came to the sparkling West Lake.</p> <p class="ql-block">父女情深深，今生難忘懷。每次來看您，您蹣跚地走向我，我把您擁上，淚珠會在您的肩膀上悄然滑落。2020年6月7日，是父親的89歲大壽，父親說要與母親一起過。壽宴就安排在朗和，戴王冠、點蠟燭、許心愿、吹蠟燭、齊唱生日歌、祝福、合影等，一個環(huán)節(jié)都不能少。親人歡聚一堂其樂融融，父母歡喜笑得合不攏嘴。</p> <p class="ql-block">The father-daughter relationship is deep and unforgettable in this life. Every time I come to see you, you stagger towards me, and I embrace you. Tears will quietly fall on your shoulder. On June 7, 2020, it was my father's 89th birthday, and my father said he wanted to celebrate with my mother. The birthday banquet was arranged at Langhe. Wearing crowns, lighting candles, making wishes, blowing candles, singing birthday songs, giving blessings, and taking photos together, one step cannot be missed. Relatives gathered together and enjoyed themselves, and the parents were happy and couldn't stop smiling.</p> <p class="ql-block">朗和的朗字，出自《詩經(jīng).大雅.既醉》：昭明有融，高朗令終。和字，則出自《黃帝內(nèi)經(jīng)》：法于陰陽，和于術(shù)數(shù)。朗和一直秉承“用心陪伴用心愛”的服務(wù)宗旨，得到同行和長者們的一致好評，省市各級領(lǐng)導(dǎo)也先后來朗和考察，給予肯定和支持。植根于內(nèi)心的善念，是最真的情懷；發(fā)源于天道的行為，是最美的姿態(tài)。</p> <p class="ql-block">The word "lang" in Langhe comes from "The Book of Songs. The Great Ode. When Drunk": Bright and clear, high and noble. The word "he" comes from "Huangdi Neijing": following the principles of yin and yang, and harmonizing with the arts. Langhe has always adhered to the service principle of "accompanying with heart and love with heart", and has received high praise from peers and the elderly. Provincial and municipal leaders have also come to Langhe for inspection, giving affirmation and support. The goodness rooted in the heart is the truest sentiment; the behavior originating from the natural law is the most beautiful posture.</p> <p class="ql-block">2021年，注定是不安寧的一年。父親突發(fā)血壓超高而入住杭州市一院心血管科，經(jīng)過檢查發(fā)現(xiàn)腎、心臟血管堵塞90%。病因找到了，聽醫(yī)生建議分二次手術(shù)，首先給腎植了支架，血壓恢復(fù)正常，過了一個月，再給心臟植支架，手術(shù)由上海中山醫(yī)院葛院士操刀，手術(shù)超乎預(yù)料的成功，手術(shù)后的恢復(fù)也超乎想象的好。</p> <p class="ql-block">2021 is bound to be a year of unrest. The father suddenly had a high blood pressure and was admitted to a cardiovascular department in Hangzhou. After examination, he found that the kidney and heart blood vessels were blocked 90%. The cause of the disease was found. According to the doctor's recommendation, the patient underwent two operations. First, the kidney was implanted with a stent, and the blood pressure returned to normal. After one month, the heart was implanted with a stent. The operation was carried out by Ge, academician of Zhongshan hospital in Shanghai. The operation was successful beyond expectation, and the recovery after the operation was also beyond imagination.</p> <p class="ql-block">總以為過了2021年，一切都會好起來，但事實非所愿。2022年春節(jié)剛過，父母就雙雙入住杭州市二院心血管科，出院后入住朗和護理院。父親的思維一直很清晰，但自從手術(shù)后，出現(xiàn)帕金森、肺功能減退等病癥，導(dǎo)致生活自理能力急局下降，身體一直棒棒的媽媽，也因擔(dān)心爸爸的健康問題而焦慮過度，出現(xiàn)了老年癡呆的部分癥狀。</p> <p class="ql-block">I always thought that after 2021, everything would get better, but it didn't turn out that way. Just after the Spring Festival of 2022, my parents both moved into the Cardiovascular Department of the Second Hospital of Hangzhou. After they were discharged, they moved into Longhe Nursing Home. My father's thinking has always been clear, but since the surgery, he has developed Parkinson's disease and reduced lung function, which has led to a sharp decline in his ability to take care of himself. My mother, who has always been in good health, has also become overly anxious about my father's health problems and has developed some symptoms of Alzheimer's disease.</p> <p class="ql-block">父母的病情在加重，一個是身體的，需要保姆照顧；一個是腦子的，與保姆水火不容。2022年5月，因母親堅決不愿再住朗和醫(yī)養(yǎng)中心，父母來到了離我一墻之隔的五云山療養(yǎng)院康復(fù)中心。小時候父母為我們辦生日宴，現(xiàn)在就讓我們圍坐他們身邊給賀壽；小時候父母為我們遮風(fēng)擋雨，如今我們也該成為他們最堅實的依靠。</p> <p class="ql-block">The parents' conditions are worsening, one is physical and needs a nanny to take care of it; the other is mental and is at odds with the nanny. In May 2022, due to my mother's firm refusal to live in Langhe Health Care Center again, my parents came to Wuyun Mountain Rehabilitation Center, which is just a wall away from me. When my parents held birthday parties for us when we were children, now it is our turn to sit around them and celebrate their birthday. When my parents shielded us from the wind and rain when we were children, now it's our turn to become their strongest support.</p> <p class="ql-block">父親的身體愈來愈虛弱，必須有人全天陪護，母親力不從心又不愿保姆靠近爸爸，偶爾還出現(xiàn)歇斯底里的狀況。2022年8月，我將父母接到自己家中照顧。我負(fù)責(zé)一日三餐，每天變著花樣葷菜搭配。看著父母的笑容，我很欣慰，陪伴，是日復(fù)一日，是點點滴滴。陪伴父母過百年，既是自己的責(zé)任，也是自己最好的修為。</p> <p class="ql-block">My father's health is getting weaker and weaker, and he needs someone to take care of him all day long. My mother can't do it, and she doesn't want the nanny to get close to my father. Sometimes she gets hysterical. In August 2022, I took my parents to my home to take care of them. I am responsible for three meals a day, and I change the combination of meat dishes every day. Seeing my parents' smiles makes me very happy. Being with my parents for a hundred years is both my responsibility and my best cultivation.</p> <p class="ql-block">在父母的養(yǎng)老問題上，羅爸給予我莫大的支持。他常常與父母聊聊天，還耐心地教母親吹奏葫蘆絲，并歡樂的與母親合奏，會拉二胡給父母聽，還會把自己寫好的書法給父母欣賞并探討?？粗麄冇H密無間的模樣，我常常很感動。都說女婿是半子，父母真心贊美，他們的女婿是全子，比全子還好。</p> <p class="ql-block">In terms of my parents' old-age care, my father gave me great support. He often chatted with my parents, patiently taught my mother how to play the hulusi, and happily played with my mother. He also played the erhu for my parents to listen to and showed my parents his calligraphy that he had written. Seeing their intimate appearance, I was often very moved. It is said that a son-in-law is half a son, but my parents truly praise their son-in-law as a full son, even better than a full son.</p> <p class="ql-block">2023年5月初，多年不見的表哥、表姐和表姐夫們，從嵊泗、上海來到我的家-林月居，看望他們的阿姨和姨夫，樂得父母合不攏了嘴。那歡喜的眼神，那燦爛的笑容，如這春光般明媚，講過去的故事，講今天的故事，你看著我，我看著你，場面實在太溫馨了。對長者而言，親人情永遠(yuǎn)是他們晚年最喜歡、最開心的。</p> <p class="ql-block">In early May 2023, my cousins, aunts, and uncles, who had not seen each other for many years, came from Shengsi and Shanghai to my home, Lin Yue Ju, to visit their aunt and uncle. Their parents were so happy that they couldn't stop smiling. The joyful look in their eyes and the bright smile were as bright as the spring sunshine. They told stories about the past and the present. You looked at me, I looked at you, the scene was too warm. For the elderly, family love is always their favorite and happiest in their later years.</p> <p class="ql-block">2023年5月中旬，父母新冠雙雙住院。出院后，父親基本臥床不起了，母親的老年癡呆癥加極，還開始出現(xiàn)妄想。我的身心也累到極致，但咬咬牙生活還得繼續(xù)。2024年5月中旬，母親因爆發(fā)老年癡呆妄想癥，而不得不送去杭州市第一人民醫(yī)院城北院區(qū)治療，不舍和無奈，再心痛也只能讓父母分開，媽媽現(xiàn)已適應(yīng)那兒的生活照顧和病癥治療。</p> <p class="ql-block">In mid-May 2023, both parents were hospitalized with COVID-19. After being discharged, my father was basically bedridden, and my mother's Alzheimer's disease worsened, and she also began to develop delusions. My physical and mental exhaustion reached its limit, but I had to bite my teeth and continue living. In mid-May 2024, my mother had to be sent to the North District of the First People's Hospital of Hangzhou for treatment due to the outbreak of Alzheimer's disease and delusions. Although I was reluctant and helpless, I had no choice but to separate my parents. My mother has now adapted to the life care and treatment of the disease there.</p> <p class="ql-block">在2025年細(xì)雨初歇，暮春與初夏之交，我們?nèi)覇踢w至云棲名筑，一方天地，左鄰中國美院，右擁浙江音樂學(xué)院，滿目青山，云煙繚繞。孝順的外孫女羅錦，讓外公外婆與她同住，與我們一個小區(qū)前后幢。父親雖大部分時間還需臥床，但思維清晰，精神大好，歡喜之情溢于言表，看到父親的變化，我們內(nèi)心也是無比寬慰。</p> <p class="ql-block">In 2025, after the light rain has stopped, at the beginning of late spring and early summer, our family moved to Yunqi Mingzhu, a place with a lot of space. On the left, there is the China Academy of Art, and on the right, there is Zhejiang Conservatory of Music. The scenery is full of green mountains and clouds. My dutiful granddaughter, Luo Jin, moved in with her grandparents and lived in the same building as us. Although my father still needs to stay in bed most of the time, his thinking is clear and he is in good spirits. His happiness is evident in his words. Seeing the changes in my father, we are also very relieved.</p> <p class="ql-block">2025年端午前夕，父親因腸胃嚴(yán)重衰竭，導(dǎo)致無法進食而住院急救。60年前的學(xué)生來看他了，他居然還可以記起以前的事；溫州老家的親戚來看他，他拉著他們的手對我說要常來常往；朋友來看他，他拱手連說謝謝。醫(yī)生也驚呀了，這樣重危的老人，生命力竟是如此的頑強，頭腦是竟是如此的清晰，這就是我偉大的父親。</p> <p class="ql-block">On the eve of New Year's Eve in 2025, my father was hospitalized with severe gastrointestinal failure, leaving him unable to eat. The student came to see him 60 years ago, and he can still remember the past. Wenzhou hometown relatives came to see him, he took their hand and said to me to often to often; A friend came to see him, and he gave his hand and said thank you. The doctor was astonished that such a critically ill old man, whose vitality was so strong and whose mind was so clear, was my great father.</p> <p class="ql-block">我們都會遇到父母變老和有病的時候，不要懼怕、焦慮和難過，帶著感恩和責(zé)任心，把心態(tài)盡可能調(diào)整到平和，想到我們的肩，能為父母靠一靠、擋一擋，要感到寬慰、自豪和開心，那么力量就來了，智慧就來了。2025年6月7日是父親的94歲壽辰，縱然在病床，我們也要為父親慶賀。人間真情，最動人心，視頻把那美好時光定格永遠(yuǎn)。</p> <p class="ql-block">We will all face the aging and illness of our parents. Don't be afraid, anxious, or sad. With gratitude and responsibility, adjust your mindset as much as possible to peace. Think of the shoulders we can lean on and block for our parents. Feel relieved, proud, and happy, and then strength and wisdom will come. On June 7, 2025, it will be Father's 94th birthday. Even on the hospital bed, we should celebrate him. The true feelings of the world are the most touching. The video captures that beautiful time forever.</p> <p class="ql-block">我對著藍(lán)天白云祈禱，對著青山綠水祈禱，希望父親快快好起來，祈禱奇跡會發(fā)生，在親朋好友的千呼萬呼下，在白衣天使們的精心護理下，2025年父親節(jié)前夕，父親終于能拔針自助半流了。還可以推著去療養(yǎng)院花園看看花草，聽聽鳥聲，感受潮濕空氣下陽光的溫暖和泥土的清香。人間有愛，這就是愛的力量，彼此的不舍，天會成全。</p> <p class="ql-block">I pray to the blue sky and white clouds, to the green mountains and clear waters, hoping that my father will soon recover and that a miracle will occur. With the unwavering support of family and friends, and under the meticulous care of the white-clothed medical staff, on the eve of Father's Day in 2025, my father was finally able to remove his intravenous lines and consume semi-liquid nutrition on his own. He could also be wheeled to the nursing home's garden to enjoy the beauty of flowers and plants, listen to the songs of birds, and feel the warmth of the sun on damp air and the fragrance of the earth. There is love in this world, and it is the power of love that brings about such miracles—a testament to the boundless compassion and unwavering support of those around us.</p> <p class="ql-block">童年，父母讓我感受到愛的幸福，教會我如何去愛一個人。青年，傳承著父母給予滿滿的愛，尋覓到我愛和愛我的丈夫，養(yǎng)育了我愛和愛我的女兒。如果把人生看成一段詩，那么母愛父愛就是這詩中最深情的畫筆；如果把人生看成一首歌，那么母愛父愛就是歌中最動人的音符。天之大，唯有母親父親的愛完美無瑕。我要用行動，盡我余生最大的力，讓父母天天快樂幸福。</p> <p class="ql-block">In my childhood, my parents made me feel the happiness of love and taught me how to love someone. In my youth, I inherited the full love given by my parents, found my husband who loves me and loves me, and raised my daughter who loves me and loves me. If life is seen as a poem, then motherly and fatherly love is the most affectionate brushstroke in the poem; if life is seen as a song, then motherly and fatherly affection is the most touching note in the song. The love of mother and father is perfect and flawless. I will use my actions to do my best with the rest of my life to make my parents happy and joyful every day.</p> <p class="ql-block">攝影: 馬玲、羅悅明、倪捷兒 文字：倪捷兒 出鏡：倪成明、田如華、倪捷兒、倪宗杰、羅悅明</p> <p class="ql-block">Photography: Ma Ling, Luo Yueming, Ni Jieer Text: Ni Jieer Appearance: Ni Chengming, Tian Ruhua, Ni Jieer, Ni Zongjie, Luo Yueming</p>