<p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">屹立今朝，又是一年父親節(jié)，爸爸節(jié)日快樂呀！在沒有隆重“頒獎(jiǎng)典禮”的家庭生活環(huán)境中，只有這樣一年一度的特殊契機(jī)，我才有機(jī)會(huì)以文字形式展開敘述關(guān)于您在陪伴我們成長(zhǎng)方面作出卓越貢獻(xiàn)的“頒獎(jiǎng)詞”。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">Standing today, is Father's Day again. Happy Father’s Day! In the family life environment where there is no grand “Award ceremony", it is only this annual special chance that I have the opportunity to express the “Award Speech" about your outstanding contribution in accompanying us to grow up by writing.</span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">眾所周知，在我們博大精深的中華文化數(shù)千年傳承下來的歷史觀念里，父愛一向都藏匿于深處，不輕易顯山露水。但這并不代表他作為父親對(duì)孩子最真切的愛就不存在或被忽略，而是他在以自己獨(dú)特的方式持續(xù)不斷的去付出。雖然由于各種原因，他往往不會(huì)用最直接的方式表達(dá)愛。但作為孩子，我們需要做的就是像解鎖密碼一樣，從一開始的疑惑不解，到逐漸柳暗花明的欣喜，再到最后順藤摸瓜發(fā)現(xiàn)了父親的良苦用心。這個(gè)過程著實(shí)繁瑣，但日積月累下來，也在思維方式中潛移默化的影響著我們，從起初的一頭霧水，到慢慢的舉一反三，緊接著窺斑見豹，偶爾甚至可以預(yù)判父親的想法。我想這都是成長(zhǎng)，在與社會(huì)正式接軌之前，這些能力都是我們必不可少的，父親在用自身幾十年的經(jīng)驗(yàn)積累與歲月沉淀來幫助我們磨練意志、加速成長(zhǎng)，達(dá)到事半功倍的效果。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">As we all know, our profound Chinese culture for thousands of years down the historical concept, father’s love has always hidden in the depths, not easy to show. But that doesn't mean that his love for his children as a father doesn't exist or should be ignored. He continues to show love in his own unique way. Although for various reasons, he often not expressed love to us in the most direct way. But as children, what we need to do is like the unlock password, from the beginning of confusion, to gradually excited, and finally follow the clues to discover the father's good intentions. This process is really complicated, but accumulated over a long period of time, it also exerts a subtle influence in our way of thinking. From being confused at first, to slowly drawing inferences, then knowing a straw shows which way the wind blows, occasionally even predicting father's thoughts. I think these actions are all growth. Before the formal integration with the society, these abilities are essential for us. Father used his decades of experience accumulation and years of precipitation to help us hone our will, accelerate the speed of growth, to achieve twice the result with half the effort.</span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">這種解密的過程以曾經(jīng)年少的視角來看是充滿不解，責(zé)怪與淚水的，為什么父親要讓我們經(jīng)歷那么多同齡小孩不需要思考與實(shí)踐的事情，為什么我們的父親不能像別人的父親一樣事無巨細(xì)的陪伴在身旁等等。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">From the perspective of once young kid, the process of declassification is full of perplexity, blame and tears. Why our fathers make us experience so many problems which children of the same age never think and practice? Why can't our fathers accompany us in every detail like other children’s father？</span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">但時(shí)至今日，年滿十八歲的我發(fā)自內(nèi)心的感激父親從小對(duì)我這樣的教育，讓我很早就明白了許多事情的牽一發(fā)而動(dòng)全身，任何事物的起承轉(zhuǎn)合都需要三思而后行等等。這些道理不言而喻貫穿在學(xué)校的課本中，但卻難免缺少現(xiàn)實(shí)社會(huì)的浸潤與敲打，父親早早就意識(shí)到了書本知識(shí)與現(xiàn)實(shí)生活的巨大差距，所以在我們的成長(zhǎng)過程中刻意植入了最真實(shí)且有效的方法——講一萬遍道理不如親身經(jīng)歷一次。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">But today, at the age of 18, I am grateful to my father from the bottom of my heart for such an education to me since my childhood, so that I have long understood that many small things will affect the whole body, any things need to think at least third times before you do and so on. These truths are self-evident throughout the school textbooks, but it should be admitted that these written truths lack of the infiltration and percussion of the real society. My father has been aware of the huge gap between book knowledge and real life, so he deliberately implanted the most real and effective methods in our growth process -- It is better to experience once than to preach ten thousand times. </span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">而隨著時(shí)間的慢慢沉淀，我相信父親教會(huì)我們的這些密碼背后的東西，都將成為我們充滿未知荊棘與坎坷挑戰(zhàn)的人生道路上最堅(jiān)硬的外殼！未來任何彷徨失措、不知進(jìn)退的時(shí)刻，父親的愛都將為我們指引并點(diǎn)亮前進(jìn)的方向！</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">With the gradual precipitation of time, I believe that the things behind these passwords taught by my father will become the hardest shell on our life road full of unknown thorns and bumpy challenges! In the future, when we meet confusion, do not know advance and retreat, father's love will guide and light the way forward for us!</span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">最后，正式“頒獎(jiǎng)”前，我想以最真摯的心意，再跟您說一聲，父親節(jié)快樂呀！</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">Finally, before the formal “Award", I want to say again with the most sincere heart, Happy Father's Day!</span></p>