<p class="ql-block">1月24日又到了女兒的生日。轉(zhuǎn)眼,女兒也到了美國允許開車的年齡,16年的時(shí)光記錄下多少快樂。我選08年朋友在海邊為我們父女抓拍的這張照片開頭。因?yàn)檫@是我最喜歡的一張。每次看到都有一番感動(dòng)。女兒爽朗潑辣的性格,自信快樂的感覺,凝固在攝影師按動(dòng)快門的瞬間。也成為我心中的永恒。</p> <p class="ql-block">孩子出生時(shí),爸爸搶在所有人之前,給她送上人世間第一朵玫瑰花。剛出生的她像所有女人一樣,也愛花,在襁褓中笑了。這個(gè)女孩的倔強(qiáng)性格卻在她出生那第一個(gè)小時(shí),我給她洗頭時(shí)讓我領(lǐng)教了。她不哭,但是拼盡全力地反抗,頭往上挺,腳亂蹬。像是在說“給姑奶奶洗頭,你征得我同意了沒有?”</p> <p class="ql-block">妹妹的到來,讓不到四歲的哥哥興奮不已。抱在懷里,不肯撒手。</p> <p class="ql-block">哥哥躺在妹妹的小床里,陪著妹妹。</p> <p class="ql-block">還蓋一床被子</p> <p class="ql-block">高興的時(shí)候咱也是個(gè)淑女</p> <p class="ql-block">豪放的時(shí)候,和哥哥一人一根黃瓜,啃出個(gè)虎虎生風(fēng)。</p> <p class="ql-block">一歲生日時(shí),因?yàn)椴蛔⒁饪刂骑嬍?,有些發(fā)福。爸爸給起外號(hào),小肥花。</p> <p class="ql-block">只好增加運(yùn)動(dòng)甩膘</p> <p class="ql-block">減肥不算成功,不好意思地笑一笑</p> <p class="ql-block">再來個(gè)飛吻??</p> <p class="ql-block">2歲的時(shí)候,陪爺爺奶奶看電視,看到壞人欺負(fù)好人時(shí),沖冠一怒“我跟他們拼了!”肥花變俠女了</p> <p class="ql-block">對一切都充滿好奇</p> <p class="ql-block">這個(gè)手勢是在暗諷誰呢?</p> <p class="ql-block">萌妹子</p> <p class="ql-block">也會(huì)回眸一笑</p> <p class="ql-block">哥倆海邊戲水</p> <p class="ql-block">也有惆悵的時(shí)候</p> <p class="ql-block">和哥哥及表兄妹一道顯得比較渺小</p> <p class="ql-block">做個(gè)鬼臉</p> <p class="ql-block">香肩微露</p> <p class="ql-block">看鯨魚表演時(shí)有點(diǎn)嗨。哥哥怕她摔倒。從妹妹降生,哥哥的責(zé)任心一直很高。</p> <p class="ql-block">進(jìn)了人生第一個(gè)球以后,就選擇從綠茵場退役了?!鞍职窒矚g足球,我不喜歡!”</p> <p class="ql-block">來Cancun散散心</p> <p class="ql-block">女兒愛小動(dòng)物。從此,把老爸領(lǐng)進(jìn)動(dòng)物世界,不能自拔。</p> <p class="ql-block">來個(gè)甜甜的笑,跟喜歡吃西瓜有關(guān)嗎?還記得你改編的歌曲:“你是我的玫瑰,你是我的花,你是我的愛人,是我的西瓜??”</p> <p class="ql-block">問你為啥那么淘氣。你回答:“我不是屬猴的嗎?”</p> <p class="ql-block">和爺爺奶奶在家時(shí)候,鄰居的小孩豆豆寄托在我家。爺爺給豆豆粥里放糖時(shí),被兩歲孫女叫住“爺爺你干嘛?”“給豆豆放糖”“那是鹽,不是糖”挽救了爺爺?shù)囊淮温肪€錯(cuò)誤,也挽救了小豆豆不被齁死。</p> <p class="ql-block">和好朋友去滑雪,熱了就脫。彰顯俠女本性。還記得你小學(xué)二年級的時(shí)候,有小男孩嘲笑你的朋友眼睛小,你挺身而出“她眼睛不小,就是不想睜開看見你這張丑惡的臉!”說得對方啞口無言。</p> <p class="ql-block">你把媽媽比做全家的核心,在媽媽生日那天,起早給媽媽做了早餐,送到媽媽的床頭。感動(dòng)了你爸爸??</p> <p class="ql-block">這16年來一直是全家的開心果。有你,這畫面就會(huì)生動(dòng)起來。</p> <p class="ql-block">姑娘曾經(jīng)說,長大要當(dāng)美國總統(tǒng)。這造型還真有點(diǎn)兒那個(gè)意思。</p> <p class="ql-block">兄妹情深。這也是做父母的欣慰。</p> <p class="ql-block">你小的時(shí)候,做夢也想不到,你長大以后,能夠把排球打到校隊(duì)。早早進(jìn)入高中校隊(duì)成了組織進(jìn)攻的核心。</p> <p class="ql-block">上了學(xué)校網(wǎng)站,被譽(yù)為球場指揮官floor general</p> <p class="ql-block">在滑雪場上,你還成為了爸爸的小老師</p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size: 18px;">當(dāng)年起名時(shí),媽媽選了Ella, 加上姓,簡寫是EZ。取英文easy的諧音。希望我們的女兒不要太辛苦,可是你偏偏選擇“不待揚(yáng)鞭自奮蹄”!</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">長大了,你在學(xué)習(xí)上的自律,體育上的努力奮斗,平時(shí)的獨(dú)立思考的精神,加上對生活的熱愛,對朋友和家人的熱忱,都讓爸爸媽媽和哥哥相信,小“肥花”終究有怒放的一天。</p> <p class="ql-block">最后,我想用7年前的一篇你的老師讓我們寫的一篇小文做為結(jié)尾,愿你在今后的日子里,永遠(yuǎn)快樂,健康,陽光,進(jìn)取!</p><p class="ql-block">Dear Ella:</p><p class="ql-block">9 years ago, Dad and Mom had a dream together. A little angel with beautiful eyes, snow white wings came to our home, bringing us tremendous joyfulness and love. 10 months later, this dream came true.</p><p class="ql-block">This baby girl was born on January 24 of 2005. She was strong, healthy and pretty. Our excitement went off the roof. We don’t think it is possible that we could describe how much we love her. We even loved to hear her crying in the middle of the night. We named this little angel, Ella. Yes, it is you, our truly sweet and lovely daughter.</p><p class="ql-block">You are so dear and special to us, and dear and special don’t even begin to cover what are in our soul. The thought of you brings tears to our eyes, just because of how meant to be it was for you to come to us. You are a true gift from heaven. And, we absolutely adore being a mom and a dad of you. </p><p class="ql-block">Our daughter is creative, inquisitive, interesting and loving. You’re smart, funny, supportive, and helpful. You always offer your help to your parents, brother and friends. We know your love is deep from your heart. We know you’ll be the most amazing woman someday. You are, and will always be one of our proudest accomplishments in life.</p><p class="ql-block">Among all the valuable characters, the most impressive one is your persistence and motivation of learning. This will keep you improve yourself and warrant a big success in your life.</p><p class="ql-block">Please, with all our hearts, never forget how much we love you. How much we will always love you.</p><p class="ql-block">Mommy and Daddy</p>