正能量 <h5>有人說,寂寞和不被需要的感覺是最悲慘的貧窮。</h5><h5><br>在這個(gè)世界上,有一種人是常常感覺不到被需要的。因?yàn)椴槐恍枰?,他們往往也是寂寞的?lt;/h5><h5><br>他們失去了青春的活力,失去了謀生的技能,社會(huì)已不再需要他們,兒女也不再需要他們。</h5><h5><br>有時(shí),對(duì)于他們來說,生活充滿無力。</h5><h5><b><br>他們,就是年邁的父母。</b></h5><h5><br>我們總以為,衣食無憂、不用操勞就是對(duì)他們最大的孝順。</h5><h5><br></h5><h5>卻忽略了,父母除卻是我們的父母,還是有著正常情感需求的人。</h5><h5><b><br>一個(gè)正常的人,怎么會(huì)希望自己是一個(gè)衣來伸手飯來張口的“廢物”?</b></h5><h5><br>越是對(duì)生活感到無力的人,越是希望自己可以被需要、被肯定。</h5><h3><br></h3><h5>我們,能給與他們什么?對(duì)于他們來說,真正的孝敬又是什么?</h5> <h5 style="text-align: center;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><b><font color="#ed2308">-1-</font></b></span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">上大學(xué)的時(shí)候,有一次實(shí)習(xí)歸來,我們?cè)趲ш?duì)的教授家里吃了一頓飯。愉快的晚餐結(jié)束后,桌上杯盤狼籍。</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">幾個(gè)同學(xué)搶著要洗碗,教授卻滿面笑容地阻止道:“不急,有人洗呢。”</span></h5><h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">教授將碗筷放進(jìn)水池,先沖去油污,然后,輕輕地走到他八十高齡的老母親身邊:“媽,洗碗嘍……”</strong></span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">同學(xué)們一下子都楞住了,只見老太太一改餐桌上的委靡,精神煥發(fā)地走到水池邊,慢騰騰地洗起碗來,花了半個(gè)小時(shí)才把碗洗完。</span></h5><h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">教授高興地對(duì)老太太說:“您辛苦了,歇歇吧?!?lt;/span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">他拿了塊毛巾,給母親擦手。教授攙母親回房后,又返回廚房,把碗重新洗了一遍。</span><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15.979999542236328px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 1; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 94%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3></h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">教授對(duì)著詫異的我們說:</span><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“做母親的沒有不想為孩子做點(diǎn)什么的,即使她老了,但在她眼里,兒子永遠(yuǎn)需要她的幫忙。</span></strong></h5><h5><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">讓她洗碗,她就會(huì)感到兒子需要她,一整天就會(huì)過得充實(shí)。</span></strong></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孝敬父母,除了幫助父母外,還要給他們一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì),讓他們愛你?!?lt;/strong></span></h5> <h5 style="text-align: center;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><b><font color="#ed2308">-2-</font></b></span></h5><h3><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">其實(shí),愛,也是需要智慧的。就像兒時(shí),父母會(huì)思考怎么愛我們,才會(huì)令我們健康成長(zhǎng)。</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們也需要思考,如何愛父母,才會(huì)令他們安心老去。</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">真正的孝敬,不是物質(zhì)上的孝敬,而是精神上的滿足。</span></h5><h5><br></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孝敬父母,要讓他們感覺到自己是被需要的。 </strong></span></h5><h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">也許我們可以說:媽媽,該洗碗嘍!</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">也許我們可以說:爸爸,幫我晾完這兩件衣服吧!</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">也許我們還可以說:爸爸媽媽,明天上班要早起,叫我起床吧!</span></h5><h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">讓父母覺得:原來,我是重要的。這是我們可以給父母的最簡(jiǎn)單、最完美的愛。</span></h5><h5><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">有時(shí)候,愛就是這么簡(jiǎn)單;孝敬父母,就是這么簡(jiǎn)單。</span></h5><h5><br></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">簡(jiǎn)單不等于不用心。走心的愛,更容易被感受到。</span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">能被用心地愛著,也有機(jī)會(huì)去愛別人,在垂垂老矣時(shí),該有多么可貴。</strong></span></h5><h5><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">愿天下所有的父母,有事可做,有情可托。需要?jiǎng)e人,也被別人需要。</span></strong></h5> <p style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#ed2308">點(diǎn)贊轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)關(guān)注</font></b></h3><p style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#ed2308">歡迎把正能量</font></b></h3><p style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#ed2308">分享給你家人好友</font></b></h3><p style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#39b54a">(贈(zèng)人玫瑰,手有余香)</font></b></h3>